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How to achieve success

Xavier — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 08:44:59 +0000

Success is more than mere professional trainings, degrees, diplomas
and technical skills. The real success reaches your intrinsic worth,
the real you-YOUR PERSONALITY. Your personality gives direction to
your life and is very much a deciding factor for accomplishing
success.

Life is what you make it and & the task of improving ones
personality is a lifetime project involving the development of mind,
heart and soul. A person should be honest and impartial while
examining oneself. If he overlooks his shortcomings, he will wallow
in them while successful people believe in overcoming them.

Instead of simply posing a straight approval to what one sees, hears
and reads without analyzing it, one should do his own thinking by
activating his dormant powers. One should challenge his fears. One
needs to be alert to opportunities and never stop striving to
improve oneself. Dissatisfaction is an encouraging sign. One can
make his personality felt by being receptive and never being
contented with the thoughts he is thinking and the deeds he is doing.

Good voice,with certainty is an asset. Voice reveals ones
personality and the speech gives out ones character. Words have the
power to humble all manifestations. The art of conversation can be
developed by being constructive and by being an alive witness to
what is happening around you.

One of the vital ingredients of a likeable personality is courtesy.
Its a well proportioned mixture of tolerance, kindness,
thoughtfulness, respectfulness and a considerate behavior.
Perseverance, too , equipped with poise brings success.To accomplish
anything, one should be persistent, optimistic and should learn self
reliance.A NEVER DIE ATTITUDE is what makes one immune to the
defeats. Defeats are not really defeats when people possess poise.
When we accept all the happiness showered by God with full grace and
rejoice,one should also accept the troubles and moments of grief
impartially without wailing and blaming destiny for it.People who do
so accept life fully and never waste their time and energy in fret
and fume. They are never at loss and inspire confidence.

Last, but not the least, a good character adds stars to ones
personality. Its a sum total of ones distinctive and moral qualities
which may include sincerity, honesty, reliability, tolerance and
generosity. One should never let his ethics suffer to attain success
as the charm is all ruined and success is but a mechanical event.

All these qualities along with a neat appearance makes one a winning
personality, a person who is able to carry out successful personal
and professional relationships. When the best is given, the best
comes back to you.

開心華之里

Xavier — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 19:02:36 +0000

最近好擔心 MUET 既考試成績, 擔心完 grammar, 又擔心 objective 有無填錯答案紙, 唉~~ 成日都甘擔心~~ 明知道擔心系無謂的,但系偏要擔心….仲系要擔心已經過左去既事先弊

因為知道甘樣落去唔系辦法,所以想聽d take it easy 既歌黎解困, 忽然間想起呢首歌,系<開心華之里>的主題曲,好懷念呢出電視劇哦~~ 以前細個果陣成日追黎睇既

過去已過去舊夢不須天天記
讓細水長流明日光陰匆匆不等你
哦讓每日開心跳起

現實是現實活在今天不需要
夢似的神奇懷念當天歌聲飄過後
一切會否可變完美

輾轉的秋和冬即使彼此各散西東
不管此際高低的心情中
依戀的一切並未實現
就讓它都似風

為何天真的你變得不羈
為何瀟灑的你太多心機
誰人和誰人如何做戲
你總會發現這個世上總有道理

為何簡單的你變得蹺蹊
為何痴心的你遠走高飛
日日夜夜漫漫路上誰伴你
你要像浪漫醉者一笑別放棄

你我都經過樂與悲讓愛心解決是與非
面對的歡笑末世紀是美麗都市日記

邊個可以幫我 download呢首歌? 好想聽呢~~ 黎明 – 歡笑末世紀 ( donno y i cant download T_T )

可以去 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YamaFBXzO2E 黎睇返開心華之里既 MV~~ wow~~ 好懷念

Optimism

Xavier — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 07:35:17 +0000

Being happy is crucial in our life.We tend to think that things go wrong always if we are not happy whereas we always think that good things will happen when we are happy. Eventually what we think will become reality. Based on reports, people who are always happy live longer than those pessimists. Hence, I learnt the importance of being optimistic. Being optimistic means we always look at the good side of things or incidents. Meanwhile, Optimists never give up. When they face the tough situations and failures in life, they don’t waste time to whine and cry out. Instead, they seek for solutions and solve the problem. Moreover, they learn lessons from the incidents and never repeat the same mistakes again. For example, a student scored low marks for a mid-term examination because he studied at the last minute. Nevertheless, He never gives up even though he failed in the mid-term examination. He did not whine about what happened. Instead, he learnt a lesson that studying at the last minute was not good. On the other hand, he looked forward and strove for the coming final test. Finally he did well in his final test and his overall marks were excellent.

Besides that, Optimists always committed themselves to success and work towards a good direction or aim. They always have hopes that they will achieve success. They don’t be afraid of obstacles, whereas they think that they will get over them soon.

Other than that, Optimists always feel good about themselves, everything and everyone around them. There are obviously some differences between optimists and pessimists. For example, while a pessimist was waiting for a waiter to hand him a drink for a long time because the waiter was busy serving other customers. The pessimist felt angry. Whereas while an optimist was waiting for a waiter to hand him a drink for a long time because the waiter was busy serving other customers. The optimist felt happy to see the waiter was so hardworking in serving other customers. At the same time, he noticed that the waiter was standing so long while working. So, he was understanding and didn’t mind to wait for a long time. Besides that, a pessimist tends to feel panic because he tends to predict something bad will happen. Whereas an optimist will feel confident that something good will happen. Therefore, they won’t feel panic. As a result, we always see that optimists are more frequently achieve success in work and studies as compared to pessimists.

In conclusion, Being optimistic is crucial to help us achieve success in life. Based on scientific reports, being happy will help our immune system work better. Thus, we are less likely to be sick. On the other hand, being optimistic may make us feel good all the time and because of that, we can be healthy always. Besides that, when we feel good about people around us, we can interact with them better. Consequently, we make better friends and they could help us in future.

Study

Xavier — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 16:09:24 +0000

Guess what? I will be sitting for Malaysian University English Test ( MUET ) on this coming saturday or 8 November 2008. There are writing , reading and listening tests. I planned to study during this weekend but i didn’t study at all. How lazy was I T_T I thought i had learnt a lesson from the past mid-term exams that studying at the last minute wasn’t good at all yet i still didn’t study earlier. Sometimes people are like that. They knew they should not do something but they still tend to do that. For example, many people knew that smoking is not good but they still smoke. Is it people won’t cry before they see the coffin?

I think i should start studying from now on. By the way, I’ve made some efforts for my studies by reading chinese newspapers or sometimes english newspapers so I can give some examples in my writing based on latest news and common issues. Furthermore, I am writing this blog to improve my writing skills! wahaha! Nevertheless, it’s not only I should study for MUET. Other subjects are crucial as well. I planned to review the notes around half an hour everyday but I could hardly do that. Sometimes I wonder am i a good student and am i qualified to further degree to university in future?